Affirmations

The Odds On Dating

The Odds On Dating

You like someone, but they aren't into you. You aren't that into someone, but they are head-over-heels for you. You meet the perfect someone, but you're about to move across country in 3 weeks for a new job. You meet another person in the new city, but they just ended a relationship and aren't ready. They want a big family, but you don't want kids.

It's always something.

The REAL Reasons Why You're Still Single

The REAL Reasons Why You're Still Single

"I've yet to see the position explored that if you are still single you are doing something right."

This is the observation I shared in the post "Why I Stopped Reading Nearly Everything For Singles," squarely directed at articles that labor to convince you that your flaws are causing you to remain single. 

I concede that they are right about one thing. You are flawed.

Why I Stopped Reading Nearly Everything Written For Singles

Why I Stopped Reading Nearly Everything Written For Singles

I’m 36 and single.

Since I was a teenager reading Seventeen magazine I’ve read about how to date, 7 ways to get a man, 3 secrets for keeping a man’s interest, 4 "killer moves" that “wow” every man in bed, 21 reasons I’m still single, what all guys want (but won’t admit), why the majority of smart women, and black women, and successful women will never marry, how to be a Proverbs woman, and the "The Rules" for dating.